In this post, you will learn methods for addressing obstacles to interpersonal effectiveness, using your new skills, in order to improve your people interactions and foster healthy relationships. This article emphasizes the power and importance of choice within relationships as a means to how we relate to those around us.
Communication For Improving Relationships
Regardless of the type of relationships you have, communication is the cornerstone of all healthy interactions. Effective and efficient communication is not an inherent skill that is bestowed on the more fortunate or in some DNA lottery. It is a skill that is learned and improved upon, first through modeling, then application by lived experience, trial, error, adjustment and reapplication.
Overcoming Barriers To Healthy Relationships.
Despite what our comparative thoughts may tell us, even the most ideal of relationships are not without their arguments. Disagreements and arguments have three basic themes. If you are able to gain a greater understanding of these themes, you will be better equipped to mitigate the fallout when they occur and focus your energies on protecting the relationship. In learning to be more effective at overcoming barriers to healthy relationships, it is crucial to know what the biggest hurdles are. If you or a loved one is exhibiting symptoms of depression, you will want to assess for the following culprits.
Managing Depression in Relationships.
Let us start off by reflecting on why relationships are so important to begin with. The social interactions we have with others have the potential to produce positive outcomes in the way that we interpret our environment, our sense of self (self-concept), our relation to the world around us (self in context) and our prospects for the future. Our interactions with others also allow for a shared experience of the human condition, which in and of itself, has a comforting impact.
Leverage Healthy Activities To Increase Goal Oriented Behavior.
We know that depression depletes our sense of motivation and with it our notion of purpose. As we begin to make traction in recovery, we regain some our energy. If we have not thought out our goals in some fashion, then our periods of motivation are at risk of being lost to points of indecision. I cannot emphasize enough the importance of striking while the iron is hot, and in order to do that, we need a sense of direction before the motivation kicks in.
Overcoming Barriers To Healthy Activities
This post discusses the third set of skills for learning to cope with depression through managing barriers to healthy activities. In the previous post, we discussed the importance of planning new activities ahead of time and finding balance among activities and support. Now that you have learned some techniques for diversifying your approach to activities, it is time we move on to problem solving barriers to accomplishing planned tasks.
Cope Through Healthy Activity
Our mood follows a series of events that are dictated by the choices we make in response to an initial neutral event. It is our interpretations of the event that influence our reactions. We will get deeper into assumptions in a latter post. For now, let’s focus on how we can cope with depression through healthy activities. I want you to consider the list below, and take note that #5 is reserved for a triggering event. #9 is reserved for the best mood, and #1 for the worst.
Activity and Your Mood
How we choose to engage and interact with our environment will have a direct impact on how we feel about ourselves, our world and those we share it with.
Identifying Your Healthy Thoughts
You see, it is hard to jump right into identifying your healthy and helpful thoughts, because they are often pre-cursors to our emotions, and reactions to events; they are how we interpret the circumstances around us. Thus, it is often easier to search out emotions and correlated events and work backwards to explore our associated thought process.
Exploring the Evidence for Your Thoughts
In this post, we will be going one step beyond thought tracking, and move into thought challenging. Learning to track your thoughts and your mood via use of mood scales, or a related tool, was a preliminary step, because next we will need to write them down and put them in the hot seat (meaning we will seek out facts to either support or negate their claims).